If you're new to the swingers scene, attending your first swingers club can be a daunting experience. There are so many things to think about - what should you wear? What will happen when you get there? Will you feel comfortable? In this blog post, we'll give you some tips on how to make the most of your first visit to a swingers club and feel more at ease.
The most important thing to remember is that everyone at a swingers club is there for the same reason - to have fun! So don't be afraid to let go and enjoy yourself. Here are some tips on how to feel more comfortable when you first attend a swingers club:
Arrive early: This will give you time to check-in, get a tour, have a drink, and get comfortable.
Wear something that makes you feel sexy: Most lifestyle clubs worth going to will have strict dress codes for men (collared shirts & dress shoes, for instance), but women are encouraged to dress as sexy as they wish, so wear whatever makes you feel good. This could be a fancy outfit or something more revealing.
Observe others before jumping in: If you're feeling a little shy, that's ok. Take the time to watch how everyone is interacting with each other and pick up on their body language cues. Soon enough, you'll feel comfortable jumping right into the conversation yourself!
Bring your own drinks: Most swinger clubs will have a BYOB policy. If you're not sure what to bring, look up some recipes online! Shots to share with others go a long way toward making new friends, too.
Bring a friend: Going with someone will make you feel more comfortable and provide an extra level of security if something goes wrong or there is any trouble at the club. You'll also have someone to talk about your experience afterward!
- Remember consent: Everyone has their limits when they're experimenting with new things, especially in the bedroom! If anything makes you uncomfortable don't hesitate to stop, access, and remove yourself from the scenario.
We hope these tips help make your first visit to a swingers club more comfortable and enjoyable. If you have any other questions or concerns, feel free to reach out to us! We're always happy to answer any specific questions you have.